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What We’re Reading: Mid-January Report

Z-Baby (9):
Clementine, Friend of the Week by Sara Pennypacker. Semicolon review here.
Also various picture books, such as Corduroy by Don Freeman, Gregory, the Terrible Eater by Mitchell Sharmat and others.
Listening to: The Calder Game by Blue Balliett.
Read aloud book: The Silver Chair by C.S. Lewis.

Betsy-Bee (11):
For school: The Great Railroad Race by Kristiana Gregory, Make Way for Sam Houston by Jean Fritz.

Karate Kid (13):
For school: Dragon’s Gate by Laurence Yep.
Garfield cartoon books for fun.

Brown Bear Daughter (16):
For school: Dante’s Inferno, House of Mirth by Edith Wharton. (No, ther’s no relationship between the two selections as far as I know. She just has to read them both.)
Leisure reading: Heist Society by Ally Carter. She also dips into various Harry Potter books that she’s already read several times while she eats supper or lunch or snack or . . .

Drama Daughter (19): Hunger Games by Suzanne Collins.

Artiste Dughter (21): Neither Five Nor Three by Helen MacInnes, A Circle of Quiet by Madeleine L’Engle.

Computer Guru Son (23): Consider Phlebas by Ian M. Banks.

Eldest Daughter (25): God Is Near Us: The Eucharist, the Heart of Life by Pope Benedict XVI.

Engineer Husband and Father: The God Who Is There by D.A. Carson, Desiring God by John Piper.

Me: The books I’ve recently finished are mostly already reviewed here. My books-in-progress include The Eye of the Elephant: An Epic Adventure in the African Wilderness by Delia and Mark Owens, The Forsyte Saga by John Galsworthy, Churchill’s Secret Agent by Max and Linda Ciampoli, and Island of the World by Michael D. O’Brien. Yes, I am reading all of those books at the same time.

We’re a fairly eclectic family, wouldn’t you say?

Fostering Understanding

Two of the books nominated for the Cybils Middle Grade Fiction award focus on foster children and their adjustment to living in a family not their own.

In Touch Blue by Cynthia Lord, eleven year old Tess Brooks and her five year old sister Libby are excited about welcoming a foster brother into their family’s life on a small island off the coast of Maine. (Don’t you just love that cover with the Monopoly pieces against the blue Maine-ish background?) As her family prepares to welcome Aaron, their new foster child, Tess says,

“I’ve never met a foster child before. But I’ve read books about them. There’s Gilly in The Great Gilly Hopkins, Bud in Bud, Not Buddy, and Anne Shirley in Anne of Green Gables. I hope Aaron’s the most like Anne: full of stories and eager to meet us. Of course, he won’t be exactly like Anne, because he’s not eleven years old.
Or a girl.
Or Canadian.”

It turns out that Aaron isn’t much like any of those kids in the books. He’s a thirteen year old trumpet player who still misses the mom who deserted him and still hopes to be reunited with her. Tess must deal with her disappointment and with her inability to control events as she tries to find a way to help Aaron become part of the family and comfortable with island life.

Dream of Night by Heather Henson reads at first like just another horse book, and I’m not too fond of horse books. However, it’s really about abuse and adoption and learning to trust. Shiloh, a twelve year old foster child and Dream of Night, a retired Thoroughbred racehorse who’s been abused and neglected by his owner, both come to live with Jess DiLima, a middle aged rescuer of both horses and children who’s not sure she still has the strength and energy to foster yet another child and a nearly starved horse. Shiloh and Dream of Night, of course, have a lot in common; both have been abused and both have trust issues. And eventually the horse and the child bond, but the inevitable friendship that grows between is not forced or sentimental. I’m not sure how, but author Heather Henson takes a formula plot and makes it seem real and emotionally engaging.

“Shiloh looks up at the black horse. He’s so big. She doesn’t understand how he got his scars. How he would let anyone hurt him like that. With his hooves and his screaming and his legs kicking out. It makes her angry. She can’t explain it, but she’s angry at the black horse for letting himself get those scars. She turns abruptly away. She walks toward the house. Without looking back.
If she were big, like Night, if she were big and fierce and strong, she would never let anyone near. She would never let anyone touch her ever again.”

Told from three different points of view, that of Shiloh, of Jess, and of the horse, Dream of Night, the novel’s strength is it’s characterization. I felt the hardness and fear in Shiloh and in Dream, and I understood Jess’s apprehensiveness about her ability to get through and earn the trust of either the girl or the horse. In fact, as I compared the two books, Touch Blue and Dream of Night, I thought that maybe Touch Blue could have benefitted from a change in viewpoint. Tess talks a little too much and understands too little, and I could have used some more insight into what Aaron was thinking and feeling.

But that’s really a small complaint. Both books give insight into the experience of foster children and into the feelings and difficulties of those who do the fostering. Both certainly deserve to be placed on the list alongside The Great Gilly Hopkins, Bud, Not Buddy and Anne of Green Gables as books for children who want to understand foster children and foster families.

Other titles about foster children and adoption:
The Higher Power of Lucky by Susan Patron. Semicolon review here.
The Road to Paris by Nikki Grimes. Semicolon review here.
The Great Gilly Hopkins by Katherine Paterson. I read this book a l-o-n-g time ago. As I remember it, it’s about a wise-cracking foster kid and the foster mom who loves her anyway.
Homecoming and Dicey’s Song by Cynthia Voigt. These two books are about homelessness and being abandoned by a parent who can’t cope, and about four resilient children who bring as much to their new home with their grandmther as she gives them.
Heat by Mike Lupica. I read this baseball-themed book for the Cybil Awards, and I really liked it. It’s bout two boys, brothers, who’ve lost both parents, and are trying NOT to get caught up into the foster care system. Semicolon review here.
Alabama Moon by Watt Key. A boy raised in the wilderness by a survivalist father runs away from a foster care facility. Semicolon review here.
Bud, Not Buddy by Christopher Paul Curtis. I’ve got to read this Newbery Award book soon. It’s about “Bud–“not Buddy”–Caldwell, an orphan on the run from abusive foster homes and Hoovervilles in 1930s Michigan,” according to Amazon.
The Pinballs by Betsy Byars. Three children in a foster home grow and learn to care about each other.
The Orphan Train series by Joan Lowery Nixon.
In The Face of Danger (Orphan Train Adventures)
A Place to Belong (Orphan Train Adventures)
A Dangerous Promise (Orphan Train Adventures)
A Family Apart (Orphan Train Adventures)
Keeping Secrets (Orphan Train Adventures)
Where the River Begins by Patricia St. John.
Pictures of Hollis Woods by Patricia Reilly Giff.
Gossamer by Lois Lowry. Semicolon review here.
The Family Under the Bridge by Natalie Carlson Savage. This title is written for younger children, and it’s not as contemporary as the other books on this list, but definitely worthwhile. It’s the story of three children and their mother who must live under a bridge in Paris after they’re evicted from their apartment. It’s also about the old tramp who becomes their adoptive grandfather in spite of his determination not to get involved with any “little birds.” (children who steal your heart)

More book suggestions on this same topic at Fuse 8.

Can you suggest any other children’s titles that have to do with foster children and adoption?

Road Trip Game

The Semicolon family is going on a road trip (someone will be left here to guard the henhouse)! We’ll be traveling for the next two weeks, and I may or may not have internet access. Don’t worry: I’ve left you some good stuff to read while I’m gone, just in case.

Anyway, I thought of a game to play with the blog along the way. I’m going to take a lot of my blog business cards and scatter them all along the way. I plan to leave one in every motel, fast food joint, tourist trap, roadside attraction, and gas station from here to, well, almost but not quite to Canada. If you come to visit Semicolon because you found one of my cards, please leave a note in the comments. Tell where you found the card and if you’d like to share, tell us your favorite book.

The rest of you, regulars and googlers, are welcome to leave a comment, too, while I’m gone. Tell us where you’re going on vacation this year. Or tell us where you’d like to go if you could. Are you taking a road trip? Do you enjoy driving? What do you do to entertain yourself and the kids, if you have them, on the road?

And most important of all, what books will you be taking on vacation with you? I already have a bagful packed and ready to go.

Summer Plans

A friend of mine posted this message on her Facebook:

So, am I the only one who starts EVERY summer with big plans that seem to disappear into thin air? This year I am dreaming of sorting and organizing so that I will have a stress free and wonderous school year, funny thing, I had this same plan last summer and the last and……..

My reply:

My kids laugh at my grand plans–for the summer, for the school year, whenever. However, when I have plans I at least get something done; when I don’t nothing happens at all.

I have Friday field trips planned for the younger set. We’re doing a modified version of school, at the very least math and reading every day. I want my Brown Bear Daughter who attended public school this past year, to learn some things at home that she’s not getting at school. Engineer Husband wants to go to South Dakota for a wedding and to Indiana to visit Eldest Daughter. I would love to get my house clean, preferably by magical means (fairies in the night, perhaps?). Of course, I plan to read a lot.

So, what about you all? Do you have grand plans for the summer?

Idealistic Eighteen Year Old in Need of a Challenge

So Drama Daughter, age eighteen, is not going away to college this fall as she had planned. You can read about her journey and dilemma here if you’re interested. Since her life has changed to unknown Plan B, she’s a little (LOT) unsure what to do with herself this summer and this fall. She has a job, and she’s taking classes at the local junior college, but she wants to do something new and exciting. I gave her this list of possibilities and thinking-starters a few weeks ago, but I don’t think any of them are what she has in mind.

1. Volunteer to lead Good News Clubs in our area. Training is in May.

2. Help with Missions Week at our church.

3. Work full time and save money for your car and college.

4. Volunteer somewhere.

5. Musical theater class at AD Players.

6. Summer internship at Houston’s First Baptist Church.

7. Visit your grandmother once a week and watch a movie together or go out to eat.

8. Volunteer at the Mission Centers of Houston.

9. Take a home economics course (at home) with Brown Bear Daughter.

10. Take a world religions course (at home) with Brown Bear Daughter.

11. Work to build a house with Habitat For Humanity.

12. Meals on Wheels program is in need of more volunteers to deliver meals Monday through Friday. Could you spare an hour during your week to bring food to someone in need? I

13. Study twentieth/twenty-first century drama with Mom.

14. Do an intensive reading project: see pages 9-11 of Do Hard Things by Alex and Brett Harris.

15. Learn to cook.

16. Take a class at San Jacinto Junior College. (She’s already been dong this, but she still has some more basic classes to finish.)

17. Go visit your aunt in South Dakota.

18. Go visit Eldest Sister in Indiana.

19. Start a blog.

20. Write a book.

21. Meet with a Christian mentor weekly who will help you to grow as a Christian. (I could help you to find the right person.)

22. Be a mentor to a younger girl and meet together weekly to study the Bible and pray together.

23. Internship at Alley Theater. (She checked into this program, but it’s more appropriate for older, more experienced actors.)

24. Take a math class to prepare you for college algebra.

25. Maybe just do this: stop, talk to people, really listen, live now instead of waiting for the future event to make you happy. Serve God where you are.

These are mostly ideas for the summer, but none of them seem to be working out for her for one reason or another. One problem is that the above ideas represent the things that I’m interested in doing or seeing her do, not her own interests and desires. She’s been looking into Americorps, but I have some hesitation about sending her halfway across the country to take a job with no place to live and no assurance that she will like the job or the place. What she really wants to do is to go away, to try out a new place and develop her own independence. What I want is for her to be moderately safe while doing so.

Maybe the above ideas will be helpful to someone else. In the meantime, any suggestions? I’m going to link to whatever I find that’s helpful in this area below.

Melissa Wiley links to the story of a girl who followed her interests and got a scholarship to the University of VIrginia on the strength of her passion.

Susan WIse Bauer writes about her experience with planning her son’s “gap year” after high school. Unfortunately, these programs cost money that we don’t have.

In Which I Awkwardly Try Something New

This story starts with Drama Daughter, age 18, who wants to go to college. She wanted to go away to college last fall (2008) since she finished high school in May 2008. But the money wasn’t there. So she continued working at the bookstore, full time in the summer, thirty-two hours a week as fall and spring came along. She took six hours of basic classes at the local junior college, all she could afford time-wise and monetarily.
We prayed.

In the late fall she began to apply to colleges. However, Drama Daughter wants to study, well, theater/drama, both the technical aspects and acting. She’s been involved in some excellent homeschool drama classes and productions, and she wants to use her gifts to support herself and to bless others. We can’t envision or find a secular college drama program that would help her to fulfill those purposes. So, she applied to three private Christian colleges. Private Christian colleges cost a lot of money.
We prayed.

We filled out the FAFSA. DD auditioned for the drama programs at the three colleges. She was accepted. She received her financial aid commitments from the colleges. Long story short, after putting together all the scholarships, loans, work study commitments, our own resources, DD’s saved up money, and anything else we could come up with, we are about $4000 short for the first year. Actually, one college suggests that we borrow almost the entire amount, about $15,000 per semester. Needless to say, that college is not an option. Drama Daughter is very disappointed, but willing to accept God’s answer whatever that may be.

In the meantime, Artiste Daughter, age 20, is trying to save up about $2000 so that she can go on a mission trip to Slovakia this summer. She will be participating in English camps that are an outreach and evangelism tool for the struggling evangelical church in the city of Trencin. We are excited for this opportunity for her and trying to find ways to help her put together the financial resources for this trip.

Why am I telling you all of this? I don’t usually share this much personal information on the blog, and if you want to skip over and get to the books and poetry, go right ahead. However, I was, again, praying, and I got the idea for the general outline of this post. I told DD and AD that I believe that my God has all the resources He needs to provide for us abundantly. If He wants Drama Daughter in college this fall and if He wants Artiste Daughter in Slovakia, He can provide. And if He wants to use you and this blog to do that providing, He can do that, too.

So, I’m not asking for contributions (although if any of you have an extra thousand or so lying around . . . ). I am asking that if you have any Amazon shopping to do that you click through from Semicolon this month. I get a very small percentage of your purchase in ad revenue if you do. Frankly, I don’t see how it would be enough to make up what the two girls need even if you do, but God also more than once multiplied fishes and bread loaves, didn’t he?

Summarizing: If you click on the banner above and shop at Amazon for anything, I will get a few cents on the dollar for every purchase you make. This money will go to the two girls mentioned above to finance either college or mission trip.

Also, if you have been thinking about purchasing a copy of my book Picture Book Preschool, please go ahead and do it. This money will also go toward either college or mission trip expenses.

If you’ve made it this far into this very long post, thank you for reading. If you have suggestions or encouragement, leave us a comment. If you have time to pray for my two lovely daughters, please do.

Consider Your Ways: #1

Don Whitney has several suggested questions to ask ourselves as we consider the new year and a new start. I thought I’d go through and answer at least some of them.

Question #1: What’s one thing you could do this year to increase your enjoyment of God?

My enjoyment of God. My enjoyment of God? I’m not sure where or how it happened, but in the past few years I’ve lost a lot of the Joy I used to have. A radio host I listened to several years ago signed off with the catchphrase: “Don’t let anyone steal your joy!”

Unfortunately, I’ve not heeded his words. I’ve let the world, the flesh, and the devil come in and steal my joy, tempting me to despair at times. I looked at this list of fourteen things that can steal your joy from John MacArthur, and I believe my chief joy-stealers are “prayerlessness” and “not understanding God’s sovereignty.” I don’t pray enough. I don’t know how to pray sometimes. I have a particular situation in my family that I want God to fix, and I’ve asked Him to do it, but nothing has happened. And I don’t know where to go from here.

You see, there’s a particular person in my life who has made some decisions that I consider to very destructive and displeasing to God. I want God to to change that person. Do I keep praying to that end? After all, God knows what I want. I know what I want. What good does it do to keep repeating myself? Do I pray about other things and ignore the elephant in the room? All this confusion hinders my prayer life and makes me unsure of what I believe about the sovereignty of God. And that steals my joy.

As for one thing I can do to “increase my enjoyment of God,” I think I need to take a step back and remember my first love. Remember that He first loved me and that I need to trust that He also loves those I hold dear. However, “his ways are not our ways,” and I hope to recover my joy by patiently trusting in His sovereign will even when I don’t understand what He is doing (or not doing). I can learn to pray again. And maybe the discipline of prayer will bring me back into a joyful communion that I’ve been missing for a while.

To the angel[a] of the church in Ephesus write:
These are the words of him who holds the seven stars in his right hand and walks among the seven golden lampstands: I know your deeds, your hard work and your perseverance. I know that you cannot tolerate wicked men, that you have tested those who claim to be apostles but are not, and have found them false. You have persevered and have endured hardships for my name, and have not grown weary. Yet I hold this against you: You have forsaken your first love. Remember the height from which you have fallen! Repent and do the things you did at first. If you do not repent, I will come to you and remove your lampstand from its place.”
Revelation 2:1-5

The $10 Challenge


I read about the $10 Challenge and then linked to it here. Then, I thought my family should do this: take $10 and find someone in need to whom to give the money. Then, I had an expensive thought. What if I gave ten dollars to each of my eight children, ages 24 down to 8, and asked them to give away their ten dollar bill before Christmas to someone who could use a Christmas blessing? Ummm, 8 x 10 is more than ten dollars. Everything ends up costing a lot more than it seems it will at first when you multiply by eight—or even ten (including Engineer Husband and me, too). Oh, well, it would be a good Christmas experiment.

I kept waiting and waiting until I could get everyone together at the same time. This feat is difficult when you have three twenty-somethings, two teens, and a twelve year old, all with active social and work lives. I ended up having six out of the eight here when I told them about the $10 Challenge. The other two would just have to hear about it later. I gave out the tens, and everyone’s eyes lit up. Then, I told them that the deal was that they had to give it away. First, some of them tried trading ten dollar bills: “You give me yours, and I’ll give you mine.” I told them that there were no rules, but that trading money was against the rules. I also suggested that they pray and ask God to show them the person or group to whom they should give their money.

So, now each of my children (except the two missing links) has a ten dollar bill to give away. We’ll see what they do with it.

I told them they had to report back on Christmas morning.

The Manhattan Declaration

The Manhattan Declaration

WASHINGTON, Nov. 20, 2009—Friday a group of prominent Christian clergy, ministry leaders and scholars released the Manhattan Declaration, which addresses the sanctity of life, traditional marriage and religious liberty. The 4,700-word declaration issues a clarion call to Christians to adhere to their convictions and informs civil authorities that the signers will not – under any circumstance – abandon their Christian consciences. Drafted by Dr. Robert George, Dr. Timothy George and Chuck Colson and signed by more than 125 Orthodox, Catholic and evangelical Christian leaders, the Manhattan Declaration is available at DeMossNews.com/ManhattanDeclaration.

The signers of the Manhattan Declaration who appeared at the press conference include:

Robert George, McCormick Professor of Jurisprudence, Princeton University
Donald William Wuerl, Archbishop of Washington, Diocese of Washington, D.C.
Harry Jackson Jr., Bishop, Hope Christian Church
Justin Rigali, Archbishop of Philadelphia, Diocese of Philadelphia
Timothy George, Professor, Beeson Divinity School at Samford University
Chuck Colson, Founder, The Chuck Colson Center for Christian Worldview
Ron Sider, Professor, Palmer Theological Seminary and Director of the Seminary’s Sider Center on Ministry & Public Policy
George Weigel, Distinguished Senior Fellow, Ethics and Public Policy Center and Founding President of the James Madison Foundation
Tony Perkins, President, Family Research Council
Jim Daly, President and CEO, Focus on the Family
Fr. Chad Hatfield, Chancellor, CEO and Archpriest, St Vladimir’s Orthodox Theological Seminary

Excerpts from the declaration include:

“We are Christians who have joined together across historic lines of ecclesial differences to affirm our right – and, more importantly, to embrace our obligation – to speak and act in defense of these truths. We pledge to each other, and to our fellow believers, that no power on earth, be it cultural or political, will intimidate us into silence or acquiescence.”
“We recognize the duty to comply with laws whether we happen to like them or not, unless the laws are gravely unjust or require those subject to them to do something unjust or otherwise immoral.”
“. . . We will not comply with any edict that purports to compel our institutions to participate in abortions, embryo-destructive research, assisted suicide and euthanasia or any other anti-life act; nor will we bend to any rule purporting to force us to bless immoral sexual partnerships, treat them as marriage or the equivalent or refrain from proclaiming the truth, as we know it, about morality and immorality and marriage and the family.”

I signed. Click on the logo at the top of this post to read more or to sign the Manhattan Declaration yourself.

Giving Books: Audiobooks Are Books, Too

Bill at Thinklings spotlighted this new production from Focus on the Family Radio Theater:

You can purchase The Screwtape Letters (audiobook dramatized performance)here or here. I’ve definitely got this one on my list for someone who shall remain nameless. (If you’re on my giving list, and you want it, you’d better get your request in soon. Otherwise, I may give it to myself!)

We’ve been listening to lots of audiobooks around here since Z-baby (age eight) can’t read at anywhere near the level she can understand. A few of her favorites, played, repeated and almost memorized, have been:
The Complete Chronicles of Narnia, Focus on the Family Radio Theater production.
Because of Winn-Dixie by Kate DiCamillo, narrated by Cherry Jones. Read Aloud Thursday interview with Z-Baby.
Betsy-Tacy by Maud Hart Lovelace, narrated by Sutton Foster. Read Aloud Thursday Interview with Z-Baby.
From the MIxed-up FIles of Mrs. Basil M. Frankweiler by E.L. Konigsburg. Narrated by Jan Miner. Read Aloud Thursday Interview with Z-Baby and Betsy-Bee.
Anne of Green Gables by L.M. Montgomery. Focus on the Family Radio Theater.
Little Women by Louisa May Alcott. Focus on the Family Radio Theater.
The Secret Garden by Frances Hodgson Burnett. Focus on the Family Radio Theater.

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