So Drama Daughter, age eighteen, is not going away to college this fall as she had planned. You can read about her journey and dilemma here if you’re interested. Since her life has changed to unknown Plan B, she’s a little (LOT) unsure what to do with herself this summer and this fall. She has a job, and she’s taking classes at the local junior college, but she wants to do something new and exciting. I gave her this list of possibilities and thinking-starters a few weeks ago, but I don’t think any of them are what she has in mind.
1. Volunteer to lead Good News Clubs in our area. Training is in May.
2. Help with Missions Week at our church.
3. Work full time and save money for your car and college.
5. Musical theater class at AD Players.
6. Summer internship at Houston’s First Baptist Church.
7. Visit your grandmother once a week and watch a movie together or go out to eat.
8. Volunteer at the Mission Centers of Houston.
9. Take a home economics course (at home) with Brown Bear Daughter.
10. Take a world religions course (at home) with Brown Bear Daughter.
11. Work to build a house with Habitat For Humanity.
12. Meals on Wheels program is in need of more volunteers to deliver meals Monday through Friday. Could you spare an hour during your week to bring food to someone in need? I
13. Study twentieth/twenty-first century drama with Mom.
14. Do an intensive reading project: see pages 9-11 of Do Hard Things by Alex and Brett Harris.
15. Learn to cook.
16. Take a class at San Jacinto Junior College. (She’s already been dong this, but she still has some more basic classes to finish.)
17. Go visit your aunt in South Dakota.
18. Go visit Eldest Sister in Indiana.
19. Start a blog.
20. Write a book.
21. Meet with a Christian mentor weekly who will help you to grow as a Christian. (I could help you to find the right person.)
22. Be a mentor to a younger girl and meet together weekly to study the Bible and pray together.
23. Internship at Alley Theater. (She checked into this program, but it’s more appropriate for older, more experienced actors.)
24. Take a math class to prepare you for college algebra.
25. Maybe just do this: stop, talk to people, really listen, live now instead of waiting for the future event to make you happy. Serve God where you are.
These are mostly ideas for the summer, but none of them seem to be working out for her for one reason or another. One problem is that the above ideas represent the things that I’m interested in doing or seeing her do, not her own interests and desires. She’s been looking into Americorps, but I have some hesitation about sending her halfway across the country to take a job with no place to live and no assurance that she will like the job or the place. What she really wants to do is to go away, to try out a new place and develop her own independence. What I want is for her to be moderately safe while doing so.
Maybe the above ideas will be helpful to someone else. In the meantime, any suggestions? I’m going to link to whatever I find that’s helpful in this area below.
Melissa Wiley links to the story of a girl who followed her interests and got a scholarship to the University of VIrginia on the strength of her passion.
Susan WIse Bauer writes about her experience with planning her son’s “gap year” after high school. Unfortunately, these programs cost money that we don’t have.





